Showing posts with label Book Reviews--Latter-day Saint books. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Eve and the Choice Made in Eden

By Beverly Campbell




The premise is that much of the oppression of women over the centuries comes from a misunderstanding of Adam's transgression, and especially eve's transgression. In the Garden of Eden, Eve was not tricked by the serpent into the action of partaking of the forbidden fruit thus dooming mankind to misery. She was thinking of humanity's greater good. If she had not partaken of the forbidden fruit, Adam and Eve would not have been able to have children, the entire population. They would not have been able to progress through trial and sorrow to know good from evil. They would still be in the Garden in an innocent state, and none of us would be here.


There have been studies about the difference in moral reasoning in men verses women. Men reason in terms of rules, laws, right or wrong, but women reason in terms of relationships with others and how a decision affects everyone involved. Adam's reasoning was correct in that he followed the law of God forbidding him to partake of the fruit. But Eve's reasoning favored the posterity of mankind. She broke one law for a higher good--the birth of humanity. Even an existence filled with pain and sorrow is better than a lovely stagnant garden existence.


Understanding the nature of Eve and her Choice Made in Eden can powerfully change the way societies view women. Women can instead be seen as valuable and wise, as opposed to corrupt and easily duped. The value of both men and women increases. Our various gender roles is enlightened. Our need to aid in each other's missions is informed. The belief that one gender is superior at the expense is eradicated.


This book can change your life.






Thursday, January 15, 2009

A Single Voice

By Kristen M Oaks

Kristen Oaks was single until she was fifty-three years old, when she married the widowed Dallin Oaks. Her life was not what she expected: she didn't expect to get married in her fifties and she didn't expect to marry a general authority. Yet she remained faithful to the Gospel of Jesus Christ regardless of her circumstances.

She wrote this book to advise and inspire the single women of the Church.

Here are some points of the book that I found helpful:

1. It validated the feelings of loneliness, sadness, and longing for a family in a family-oriented church.
2. Remaining single is not an emergency--we don't have to marry someone wrong for ourselves just to be married. We will be ok, and can build a successful life.
3. Singleness isn't a sign that there is something wrong with us, maybe it means we haven't found someone equal to ourselves yet. In our religion, we believe that there will be an opportunity to marry in the next life if not in this life.
4. God might not save us from our trials in life. We may not get all of the things we long for in life. There are many with unresolved problems in life: remaining single, being childless, having a child with severe disabilities and living with a chronic illness are some examples. Though our trials remain, God will not forsake us.
5. People might make insensitive comments because they don't understand why we are single. We need not lose perspective because of well-meaning people who have it wrong, but learn to move on.
6. She gave advice about dating and self-improvement.